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“Thank You For Being A Friend” — Andrew Gold
It’s said you only find out who your friends really are when times are tough and the chips are down. Well, we’ve pretty much all been feeling like that varying degrees of lockdown have cycled through communities around the world over the past few months.
When times are hard, people show you who they really are. It’s easy to be nice when everything is rosy in the garden. It’s people who are still nice in the teeth of overwhelming personal pressures who are the real deal. Everyone else was just pretending.
The kids who FaceTime grandparents living on their own, far from their family, just to make sure they’re OK. The nurse who doesn’t go home after an exhausting 12-hour shift saving lives without making sure their neighbour, who looks after three kids under five all by themselves, has everything they need from the shops. The delivery drivers who have been a lifeline for so many, and still manage to stay cheerful despite their punishing schedules.
As Andrew Gold put it…
Thank you for being a friend
Travelled down a road and back again
Your heart is true, you’re a pal and a confidant
We sometimes think of “being a friend” as someone we spend a lot of time with, someone who we go on holidays with and spend large chunks of time in their company.
